Friday, March 19, 2010

TAKE 11 SIMPLE STEPS, YOU ARE NOT ALONE…


Step: 1
Firstly be positive and make possible to attend any meeting or seminar or join any community related to this, will help you understand that you are not alone and you are not a bad person.

Step: 2
Do not tell anyone especially the drug addict that you aim to leave. Be careful in all you’re planning for leaving it. Select a target date for leaving. You should permit yourself at least one - two week(s).

Step: 3
Arrange for a temporary place of safety. This may be your relatives’ home, a friend’s home, or apartment. Believe yourself that you are able to leave it in your target date. Keep it secret and if you are going to someone’s home be sure that you can trust that person to keep your intentions a secret.

Step: 4
Keep as much money as possible into your personal bank account and be sure that no one knows about your account. Select a bank which is far from your relatives and friends.

Step: 5
Bribe any sum unpaid, if possible. If it’s not possible, let know the lending society or defaulter that you need to make other preparations to pay that debt.

Step: 6
If there is any utilities related to you, cancel them. Make possible to pay utilities one or two days after your target date for getting away.

Step: 7
Before your TARGET DATE doesn’t give the profit to anyone of your policies, for example.(life or health insurance policies).

Step: 8
As your target date approach, utilize as little time as possible with the drug aficionado. During any time he spends away from the house, move your things, a few at a time, to your place of safety. Do this as prudently as possible.

Step: 9
Make possible that at least one person is with you on the target date. Move your things out or away from you as quickly as possible. Try to take this step when the drug addict is away from you and try best to ignore him.

Step: 10
Once all you own is out of the house and you lost your past then the drug addicts is standing in front of you crying or begging, tell him nothing is important then your life and now no one can change your mind. After this communication you feel better and your likeness increases.

Step: 11
After you lost your past and started your new life in which you feel better than your past, finally leave it and again close to relationship and also, if it’s possible, find your partner who helps you and always with you in your happiness and worries and always believe yourself that you are better than others.

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